I recently read an article in the New York Magazine about a new social phenomenon of people in their 30s and 40s who are still on the cutting edge of fashion, music, and culture (Up With Grups - The Ascendant Breed of Grown-Ups Who Are Redefining Adulthood). They are living like 22 year olds but with have the jobs, paychecks, responsibilities, and families of adults. Basically, in certain circles, the generation gap has disappeared. This is actually something I have been thinking about for a little while. There was a huge generation gap between my grandparents and parent’s generation and a smaller (but still very tangible) generation gap between my generation and my parents’. While the “Grups” in the article are still a few years my senior, I can relate. I think a few things are at work here:
1) My generation was brought up to be hard-wired for change. If there is one constant in society, it is change. And it comes faster and faster these days. In my grandparents’ generation, things changed an incredible amount. Cars weren’t widely adopted when they were kids, let alone the boom of computers. While they were good at driving this change with business , their culture (probably inherited somewhat from their parents) was more fixed. They were not used to things moving so fast. Not so at all with my generation. Since I was in middle school my generation has been used to keeping up with the latest trends - not just fashion trends but trends that redefine the way people live, like cell phones and e-mail. We are used to accepting change and learning how to adopt it.
2) We are spoiled. We have grown up in an era of incredible affluence and haven’t really been challenged as a generation. My grandparents had to deal with the Great Depression, World War II, the Korean War, etc… My parents had to deal with Vietnam. Our lives haven’t been disrupted by “duty” - either to country or family. Furthermore, my parents didn’t have Wal-Mart or China, Inc. to cater affordably to their every material need as they were growing up. My generation has grown up taking our incredible affluence and freedom of personal choice as a given - and we are choosing to continue to live a fast paced, ever-changing, life of fun. We are free to follow our passions.
3) We live in the era of “the long tail.” Our tastes and preferences are not defined in a generational way. Largely gone are the days of mega-blockbuster hits (movies and music) that are fed to us by huge media companies and widely adopted by a certain age group. Groups are now defined not as much by age, but by mindset. You’ll find me watching Bollywood movies, reading Tom Robbins, or listening to Merle Haggard. So at once my contemporaries are Indians, quirky baby boomers, and old-school blue collar republicans. There is no way you can cater to me in one fell swoop. My tastes and preferences change at different speeds in different areas of my life. As an avid music fan who grew up in the days of Napster, I can’t imagine ever not being at the cutting edge of the music scene. I’ll always be mingling with 18 year olds who choose to appreciate my kind of music.